Be Your Valentine is a two-part evening for women who are busy, capable, and often last on their own list.

It is not a motivational talk or a fluffy self-love night. It is a practical space to slow down and work on how you actually treat yourself.

In the first half:

You will make your own clay diffuser stones and take them home with essential oil. You will learn how to use them as a quick pause in your day – something you can reach for when you feel rushed, overwhelmed, or mentally full.

In the second half:

Ashleigh from Solstice_21 will lead a guided journaling session on self-worth. You will look at where low self-worth comes from, how it shapes your choices, and how those patterns can change. You will finish by setting clear intentions and affirmations that feel real, not forced.

I will open this part with a short talk on what self-love looks like in daily life – in boundaries, rest, and the way you speak to yourself.

There will be a glass of prosecco or nosecco on arrival and a calm, welcoming space. No pressure to share. No expectation to be anyone other than you.

You will leave with:

- Diffuser stones and oil

- A simple calm ritual you can use at home

- A clearer understanding of your self-worth patterns

- Intentions you can actually live by

This is not about fixing yourself.
It is about changing how you treat yourself.

Where and when?

Thursday 12th Febuary

6-8pm @ The Royal Oak, 111-113 Standishgate, Wigan WN1 1XL

Meet Upstairs in Sherringtons - head past the bar when you walk in and straight upstairs. Parking is available for free in connecting streets after 5pm.

If you're worried about coming alone, that's totally normal, so pop me a message on Whatsapp 07738721227